Parenthood

(Headed to Ecuador to go get my girl!)

Today I thought I would talk about parenthood

And Down Syndrome.

I've only been a member of the club for two years
(well parenting a child with Down Syndrome)

So I really can't speak for everyone.

But I do have a few thoughts to share,

That might be applicable 

Whether  you have a child with Down syndrome

Or not.

(day 2 at Para Sus Ninos)

Being the parent of a child is as huge responsibility

One I don't take lightly.

(signing important adoption papers in Ecuador)

(a new family!)

But one thing I need to be reminded of 
time and time again

Is my need to take care of myself 

So that I can in return

Take care of the ones I love.

You know there are many sayings out there about motherhood,

(carolina park in Quito)

"If mama ain't happy ain't nobody happy." 

"The hand that rocks the cradle rocks the world." 

If I got paid salaries for all the jobs I do around here,

We'd be pretty well off.

But the thing is I don't.

(Easter 2011)

That doesn't diminish the importance of what I do though!

I am needed around here

And if I don't eat right, get plenty of sleep, exercise.

Well, it's not just me I am hurting.

I have this family that needs the things I bring to the table.

My daughter has Down syndrome.

My daughter is legally blind.

My daughter needs me to be around,
present

To be her advocate,

To be her teacher,
most of all

to be her mommy.

You know

The one that makes up silly songs,
 who is teaching her to read, and kisses her owies,
that knows her likes and dislikes

Wipes away her tears, and puts in her DVD of choice!!

No one, no matter how hard they try,

Will ever be able to fill that role in our child's life.

All you mommies out there....

You know who you are.

Please make that appointment.

Have your annual check ups.

Eat right, get plenty of rest,

Take some time to enjoy life- 
a book, friend, a hobby you enjoy!

(what Im knitting! You can see Ginnys Page for the directions for the hat.  Im knitting a sweater with the same lace and its own matching hat for a gift too!)
                                             

Do your Brest self-exams.

If not for yourself,

Do it for the ones that love you!